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Two strangers meet to share a common experience, and their differences. They bring a gift.

Alex and Jeremy achieved high status in life. But one has given it up, the other is still pursuing it. They meet to share experiences, exchange gifts and explain their choices.

Two people who share a common experience meet for the first time. Each has a gift for the other - an object that unlocks their story. With the help of presenter Catherine Carr, they exchange personal experiences and uncover the differences between them. 
 
Jeremy Schwartz and Alex Murray both achieved high status in their careers - Jeremy as a chief executive for major companies, Alex as a senior officer in the Royal Marines. 
 
In their encounter, the two men explore what status has meant to them throughout their lives, how it affects their identity and what the consequences are of walking away from it or chasing it.  
 
Jeremy describes how his father’s refugee experience shaped his attitude towards success. His father escaped the Nazis in Vienna and came to London. Seeing the gap  between  the status his father was capable of achieving  and  what he  actually  achieved in the UK  was a driving force in Jeremy’s own life:  “I had a bit of a chip on my shoulder. I saw  the pursuit of status as important.”  He enjoyed success in management at major brands such as L’Oreal, Coca Cola, Sainsburys and The Body Shop. His marketing talent helped shape some of the most effective brands of the past 30 years.  
 
For him, status is a complex blend of wealth, power and respect. But, in his 50s, Jeremy left his last CEO role and has not been able to secure a job at that level since. He reveals how the loss of that title or  “calling card”  has a profound effect on self worth. But in the end, it’s made him reflect on the value of status:  “In the end it is about the impact you can make in life.”  
 
Alex Murray left the Royal Marines with rank and kudos, but life outside the military was a struggle. He could not find fulfilment in the corporate world but was trapped by his expectations of money and status:  “I just thought that someone with my background and what I’d done ought to be earning a certain amount. It took 10 years to realise you only have one shot at this life, and you need to make it count.”  
 
His  wife saw a job in the prison service advertised in the paper. “You’re good at looking after lads,” she said.  He  applied and  got it.  He’s now  studying for a Masters in running prisons alongside doing this job.  Alex says he had to  get over  wanting the status of a highly paid career and accept that true satisfaction for him lies in a job without high status:  “I just wanted to do something where I could feel like I was making a difference.” 
 
Presented by Catherine Carr 
Produced by Charlotte Pritchard

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