Getting married is like a sprint.

You work together towards a finishing line, and once you're over the line, there are cheers and applause.

Staying married?

That's a marathon. A long, hard slog, that takes its toll mentally and physically.

Comic Sindhu Vee, has been married to her Danish husband for over 20 years, and despite culture clashes, interference from in-laws, and three London-born children who prefer to call her "bruv" - her marriage is still going strong.

Written and performed by Sindhu Vee.

Script Editor: Robin Morgan

Producer: Victoria Lloyd

A BBC Studios production for BBC Radio 4, first broadcast July in 2018. Show less