Some cautionary words as a prelude to St Valentine's Day, from Susie, Jan. Alison and Irene, and social psychologist Dr Glenn Wilson.
' fell in love with him the way he was and I'm still in love with him the way he is ..." (IRENE) ' We all think we're married to MrRightinthebeginning,and then he turns out to be Mr Wrong....' (JAN) ' I put the rose-coloured spectacles on and saw the man how I wanted to see him ... '
(SUSIE)
' There are a lot of people with whom we could live reasonably compatibly, if we are areasonablepersonourselves.... ' (DR GLENN WILSON ) Interviews by RITA DANDO Script and production BARBARA CROWTHER