The third programme in this series that looks at adolescent life from both sides of the battlefield shows how parents can cope with their worst nightmares.

Natasha had a baby at 14. Talking about sex education she says: "We don't get taught that until the fourth year and I'm only in the third year." Her 15 year-old brother ends up in a secure unit but says: "I would rather be outside with my mates.... nicking cars, stuff like that."

Is divorce to blame when children go off the rails? In studio role play, parents hear the views of teenagers about broken marriages.

A Goldhawk production for BBCtv

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